PARTY TIME!!!

Hello All! Happy End of August!👏 Lots to tell you about! We had Joe’s Birthday Party last week! Was so much fun. Lots of pictures coming up!v I’m thinking this is really is more of a magazine than a blog . . . with all the back issues still alive and well, over there ➡️➡️➡️➡️➡️➡️➡️➡️ ↘️ in case you need them.♥️

Ready for MUSICA? Listen to the words to this! It’s good. By the same guy who sang that amazing Bella Luna song, Jason Mraz. 💖 

As most of you know, I was born with the doily mentality, maybe caused by being the oldest of eight children and called the “little homemaker” ~ I’ve always loved making things pretty and clean, surprising my mom with a clean kitchen when she came home from the supermarket was one of my happiest moments in a day because of her reaction.💞 I’ve been writing about it for years, it’s in all my cookbooks, family, and homemaking books, even in my autobiographical books ~ I can’t be separated from it ~ this forever celebration of home ~ and the days of our lives celebrated there ~ it’s given me such a happy life, all these little things add up ~ and I know I’m not alone with this passion, we (meaning us Girlfriends) have BONDED over it! And I’m so happy to tell you I have never grown out of it. I still love to see my countertops shine, love to have parties for our friends, and set the table with old dishes and candles and flowers and make it beautiful.
I love twinkle lights, filling the garden my own veggies and flowers, collecting short etched glasses and old tablecloths (among every other thing!), and writing about everything later in my diary. For me, it’s always been old houses, feeding birds, hanging things on the line, daily cups of tea, kitties, music that takes me to another time ~ homemaking is the MOST creative work … home, where everything is just the way we want it, giving us, at least in one place, the exact life we want. It’s my passion and always will be, even when I was 13, arranging ⬆️ birthday presents on my bed; or when I worked in a record department (that’s my bedroom ⬇️, in a house I shared with girlfriends, I made the pillows, my g. grandma made the quilt, old family pictures from Grandpa Willard, $40 dresser <bought on layaway> from nearby antique store), when I was a waitress, or when I was writing books … I always had that passion and money never stopped me, because my parents taught me, if I want something, I can make it myself or save for it. I see something new, get inspired, and add it to my repertoire! Isn’t that the way it works for you? All about the senses … so I figured it out: does it feel good, look good, smell good, sound good; does it make you happy, make you feel safe, fill your heart, fly you to the moon? … say yes to these questions and therein lies the secret to a happy life!
Me in the garden. It’s not that I HAVE to make it as pretty as possible, it’s that I WANT to!💖
And it’s the littlest things . . . for example, these are the trays that Joe and I put on our laps to eat dinner and watch whatever streaming wonderfulness we can find. The trays are made of acacia wood, so they are light and simple, they have handles, and fit on our laps most comfortably. Mine is the one at top, his is the one on the bottom. You can tell by the dishtowels. I keep these trays, all ready for us, under the coffee table and put dishtowels on them for mini tablecloths, and dish towels for napkins too . . . I just changed the linens and look how cute! So cute I had to show you! I’m a horrible person when I’m hungry, which is rare since all I do is eat. But Joe knows all the symptoms. I make that point-to-my-mouth move in that comic below (he gave me years back, it lives in my dinner party diary) . . . I point at my mouth, and pretty much no matter where we are, even if we’re on the freeway, his fear of what he perceives is madness in the woman he loves (she perceives it as normal), is so palpable he practically FLIES off the road to where the food is! One of the many things I love about him! 
So I can’t WAIT for Joe to pull out his newly decorated tray! And, seeing how MUCH we Girlfriends have in common . . . This is proof-positive that
so of course, I found, and ordered, this identical “I am sorry” dishtowel for our web store🤣 . . . they’ll be HERE at the end of the week. And, I got the trays HERE . . . (it’s easier if I put the “Where did you find them” answer up now, than for Kellee to answer the emails she gets for “where can I find…” (She will love me for this.) The two “napkins” on the trays, I got when traveling . . . I’m a dishtowel collector from way back! 
My travel dishtowels are perfect for those trays … they bring back happy memories for both of us! 
So this is me, getting ready for Joe’s Birthday Party that happened last week ~ doing first-thing-first, deciding on the candles for the table. After the candles, I got out the tablecloths, then the plates, and so on and so forth . . . Because it was a dinner for 24, at a long table under the big albizia tree in our garden, our first big dinner party since we moved here. And we were both in the MOOD.🎵💃🏼🕺🎶 And I will jump to the spoiler with GLEE . . . we had such a good time. There was dancing and singing, cake and candles, laughing and hugging. That’s all it took. Old friends from 1971, and new friends from 3 months ago, ages 23, 50, 80, and everyone in between. Happy Birthday to Joe! I’ll show you more pics in a minute!

I’m putting this tip in my Christmas Book, but because that book’s not coming until next year, I’m going to tell you about this good thing now. Glass “Spooners,” like the one with the cute feet in front in the photo above, and this one below, were filled with spoons during the Victorian era and kept on dining tables as a sign of hospitality ~ today you can find them in antique stores, thrift stores, really all over . . . and instead of spoons, I discovered that they make the prettiest, most interesting candle holders for votives ~ some are even wide enough for pillars, and some make great vases too. This is actually a secret I’ve kept a long time, I wanted to get all I needed before I told anyone!🤣 You will see them at all prices because in lots of places people don’t know what to do with a spooner! The hunt is the best part, but if you are too busy for that, I did the hunt part for you and found a few pretty spooners, and some old glass sugars and creamers to put in our webstore. Because soon it will be fall, and chilly and cozy inside! Get ’em fast before they get hot-hot-hot!😂 

But before I tell you about Joe’s Birthday Party . . . I want to show you THIS 〰️ The revised Summer Book has landed in America!👏 I know you’ve been asking . . . 
XOX
I’m so sorry they’re late . . . you’ve probably heard about recent changes to shipping and importing into the US ~ and all of it taking more time and being more expensive than expected . . . First the ship changed its departure date and left later than we were told; now the books are here, and off the ship, but waiting to clear customs. We know because we call and bug them every day. Because there is nothing we love more than the runaround. Joe called this morning, received the runaround, “they’re on the way.” Okay we believe you. Hopefully they will get sick of hearing from us! I’m really sorry ~ thank you for your patience. We used to be able to fly our books over, but it has gotten monumentally expensive, and I’m not going to raise prices, so they just have to cruise over . . . I don’t blame the printer, they do a wonderful job, even flew the 5 books in this video over, directly to me for final approval! And I have to tell you, really, I sat down and read it (pretending I didn’t know me), and I think you are going to love it! I even loved it… and I never love it when I first see a new book! I hope this bodes well! Just know that the MINUTE they arrive, they will be shipped out to you…Kellee is waiting with lots of help to make that happen. If you haven’t ordered your copy yet, you can do it HEREhave faith, they are coming soon to a mailbox near YOU!💝
Same with our BLOTTER CALENDARS …. They’re finally HERE!!!👏 Here’s a little preview . . . it’s the February 2025 Blotter page!💖 

The Blotter is our biggest calendar . . . it can be hung on the wall, or used as a desk calendar, you can tear off the pages . . . I can’t find the picture of Jack laying on the blotter so you can see the size, but it’s 22″ by 17″ … big!🩷

Here’s some more from my new 2026 calendars, this one is from September . . . they’re all in at the Studio now, Wall, Blotter, Mini, and Purse . . . Go HERE to read more.🧡Here’s Thanksgiving ~ November! I have so much fun doing calendars! I did my first one in 1993 and have covered every home subject there ever has been, from letter writing, to embroidery, to gardening, books, cozy beds for sleeping weather, and lots of recipes too, and I just signed a contract to do more for 2027!💞Here’s March 2026!This is why I have to update my old books . . . there is so much new art, so many new stories since I started writing books in that little one bedroom house on Martha’s Vineyard back in the 1980s!!🥰

XOX 

Thought you’d like to see my studio ~ yes, it’s a mess! But I have Turner Classic Movies to keep me entertained! I’ve been working on the new extended revised version of the CHRISTMAS BOOK, it’s been 35 years since the first printing of that book♥️ … that’s a lot of Christmases! I think you’ll be happy to know THIS Christmas Book is going to be a Winter Book too💃🏼 ~ I’ve been singing Christmas carols for a month now! Working in the garden singing Christmas Carols! Nothing wrong with that!

Here’s the new cover! The only problem is, I just found out theycan’t guarantee they’ll get books to us before Christmas. So I’ve decided to save it for NEXT Christmas! I think we can get it by JULY of next year. But that’s okay, I hope, because you’ll have the SUMMER BOOK to keep you warm this Christmas ~ and who doesn’t dream of Summer during the winter? Lots of benefits for doing it this way: Mainly TIME! Time to make the Christmas Book even better.🌟 Time to write Willards and do new calendars! And I get to go meet you and sign books at Independent bookstores this fall! Time for dead-heading roses! And it just gave me time to enjoy a flamboyant, true-love birthday celebration with my guy! Which I get to show YOU! It’s my favorite thing, balance in life, a win-win!💞🥳🎁🎉🎊🎈

Time to make parties for our friends, to celebrate birthdays, our friendships, and our new life here in California, appreciating what we’ve been given.💞

So when I was getting candles and dishes ready, Joe got himself a new birthday barbecue! ‘Cause you can’t cook for 24 in our two-butt kitchen while everyone is there! Here is a view of our little kitchen at Thanksgiving last year! Makes me excited for fall!

XOXO

Here’s our two-butt kitchen last year, getting ready for Thanksgiving! And it’s almost here again! Such an exciting time of year! I saw red leaves in our Cottonwood trees on my walk yesterday! Yellow too. Not known for fall color in our part of California! You have to look close! It’s 8 am this morning, the sun is out, yet it is only 58º! Fall is around the corner! 🍁🍃🍂

But I digress! We set up the fire pit the night before the party . . . it’s too cold to sit outside at night around here … and we LOVE it outside, so we have to make people comfortable so they don’t go home! These things are so wonderful, throw off a ton of heat and no smoke! Joe thinks we’re crazy California people heating up summer nights! But sitting under twinkle lights and stars with flickering candlelight and old friends is totally worth it!🕯️

XOXO

Joe and Alfredo arranged rented long tables, chairs, & heater towers under the tree ~ moved all our garden furniture around, set up a bar under the arbor. They hung lights in the Albizzia tree . . . and everyone brought food, Joe BBQed steaks. We started preparing a week before the party, and here we are, the night before, with the bones all set and ready! They next morning, we added the frou-frou, as in flowers, plates, and silverware!🌸

My girlfriend Terrie came early to help us set up! I brought the candles and dishes from the house to the deck, she took them from the deck to the table! This was a family affair! It took a village. My sister Shelly is in the kitchen (could not have done it without her! Without any of them!) and Terrie’s husband Tom was out deadheading the Julia Child roses! He wanted a job! And those roses were on my mind!💛 He’s my hero!😊

Here’s Tom, back from the roses, helping put out the water glasses! They came down from the Bay Area to join us!💞

Looking good. I was no help. I had to take pictures!🤣

Need a video? I have one!

XOXO

Terrie’s talking to me while making it perfect ~ she doesn’t know I’m videoing!! I wonder how many of those flowers we ate!🌸🌸🌸 This whole time Joe is over at the “bar” putting crushed ice into galvanized buckets and stuffing them with bottles of water, wine, soft drinks, beer, and juice from the fridge in the garage.👏

See Butch? He and his musica was a gift to Joe’s party from our very good old friend, Cliff, and his darling wife, Lynette!💝 Butch came early to set up . . . and was so GOOD, wait till you hear! He sang and played the theme music from our lives! And you see the dance floor right there in front of the bar! Sometimes we call it grass.

XOXO

Three amigas! Back from the extra fridge in the garage, Terrie has the ice cream, I have the peach cobbler, Diane has the water pitcher (Butch has the guitar! Tom has his camera!). The three of us have been girlfriends since 1972! Met in San Luis Obispo all those years ago. Never imagined THIS back then!! We were stopped by the music, gotta dance!💞You’re going to feel like you were there!!

XOXO

There’s Alfredo and Cliff! You get the gist, just a really fun time! So good! So good! So good! This all went on for a while 🎵🎶🎵 . . . and finally . . .

We ate!

So DELICIOUS! Look at that! All comfort food!💝

We toasted, we speechified, we laughed, ate some more, toasted more, sang Happy Birthday, Joe made a wish and blew out his candles, we had ice cream and birthday cake, and enjoyed the gorgeous day. There were old friends and new friends, cousins of friends, children of friends, even my dentist and his wife and daughter were there, new friends.♥️ People who didn’t know each other met and talked and talked and talked. It was perfect. My darling man was the belle of the ball. And we all stayed nice and warm, lit the candles, and nobody went home early! Judy took a video of me toasting Joe and thanking everyone for coming  … she has it in her phone and I forgot to get it, but she put it up on my Instagram page if you want to see it (I’m susanbranchauthor over there).♥️ (Don’t want you to miss anything!🤣)

Look what Sheri brought! Two  Birthday Cakes AND coconut candy (like almond joy, without the almonds, and about 100 times better!) Coconut Cake and Lemon Cake. She made it all! Just delicious!💝

She is amazing! Isn’t it fun, we’ve been doing this blog together for so long, a lot of you know who a lot of these people are! Remember? Sheri worked for me for years, she’s my neighbor and friend. Judy was there too, but Kellee was booked up this day …she was missed!

Alfredo came . . . someone else we could not have done this without . . . actually I guess it’s EVERYONE!!

I always like to include characters from my books when I can, friends for life💝 … you saw Diana, and here’s more dearest old friends, Cliff and Elaine . . . Elaine drove out from Martha’s Vineyard to spend the month of August in her old stomping grounds.♥️

XOOX

Here we are, end of the night, just us in the quiet … the music still echoing, the ghosts of the party still milling about . . . We’re not taking those lights out of the tree. They go on with a flip of a switch in our laundry room and we’ve had them on every night since the party!

The next morning Terrie and Tom came over, Shelly was here, Joe made breakfast and we relived the entire party ~ always the funnest part! And opened Joe’s birthday presents!🎁

I found this in a nursery gift store near us (at Ron’s in Halcyon). It’s on a thick piece of board . . . I thought it was perfect for the darling love of my life, and he LIKED IT! YAY!💝 

Parties are wonderful things. They leave you with a mown lawn, a clean house, left-over macaroni and cheese, at least four half-gallons of ice cream, plus twinkle lights, lots of flowers, a ton of photos, and wonderful memories!♥️

XOX

A couple days later, the party tablecloths are on the line, a lovely sight to see flying around the garden . . . Still living in the glow, but back to taking my walk, listening to my book (Maisie Dobbs series, book one, love it so much already!), trying to eat more healthily, planting lettuce, scratching cats, and hearing the sound of the bees in the albizzia tree.

If you have a Trader Joe’s near you, here are two things to try . . . their Egg Bites are SO delicious! I love all 3 varieties! One of them is just egg whites, one of them is eggs, spinach, and kale . . . one has bacon, they’re all good. Take 60 seconds in the micro-wave to heat up! Also, see that toast? That’s their Danish seed bread. Yummy! In my toaster (can anyone suggest a GOOD TOASTER that doesn’t take up the whole counter in my two-butt kitchen???) I have to put the bread down twice in this one to make it crisp, the way I like it. The peaches came from our tree. Free and excellent! This bag went to Sheri!

Well I hope that made up for my long absence. This ought to take you forever to read and look at all the videos. We can thank YouTube for making it easier to put up videos on a blog! I’ve never done more than one in a single post! It still takes forever, but not as long as it used to!!! 

I feel like I’m forgetting something!🤣 Even after all that! Well, if I remember, I shall return! Exciting to know soon we’ll all be turning the page to wonderful September! 👏 Take good care of yourselves! Thanks for coming to visit! And remember,LOVE YOU DEARLY!!! XOXO 

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ANTICIPATION

Anticipating MUSICA? You got it! Hi Everyone!!!💞💞💞 For the last 35 years I’ve experienced Spring as being in a constant state of anticipation, WAITING for the end of winter ~ even though I loved winter, snow, the fire, the sweaters, & cozy dinners, I have to say March in New 🌷🌷🌷 England is the longest, greyest, coldest, never-ending month ~ sometimes I just wanted to slap it ~ April is almost as bad, but the anticipation is there anyway, waiting for it to warm up, for something to come out of the soil, camera ready to catch the smallest bud, calling friends to announce the first daffodil, thrilled on the first day we could open the windows, for the first outdoor dinner, everything-everything! So exciting! So this makes me wonder how you’re all doing? I hear about weather attacking the country here and there, & I know some are feeling it! But look at it this way: It’s all just free anticipation. So much to look forward to. I love that word… And happy to say, it’s been my word here in California too! All winter! It makes life so exciting ~ I can’t wait to wake up each morning and look outside to see the day’s weather, wander through the garden looking for what’s new, gasp at beauty, settle in with my tea, my cat, my pen, my brush, to work on a new page for my (our) new Summer book … and every day something in the garden blooms that wasn’t there before ~ and I’m right here for it! Between my art and the garden, I feel so lucky. Winter is relatively easy here, chilly, sweater weather, but I get to be out every day, windows are always open, we sleep cold, delicious under the covers. I saw a King Snake the other day, my first, I kept, very respectfully, a mile away from him even though he is known to be harmless to people and eats gophers. He’s a shocking 3 feet long 😱, and the other day he undulated himself right out across the lawn while I was watering.🫣 Calmly, I did nothing. Black with white stripes. Unforgettable. I haven’t seen him since. But I am aware. Which is good. Honestly I like knowing he’s there, just please, I beg silently, do not come up in the toilet. Egrets graze in the back fields, they eat gophers too. I love all things that feast on these underground terrorists. It’s true country living! Sometimes I turn on the music first thing, loud, dance over to make tea, dance over to Jack (for forehead-touch/brain-exchange), dance to the shower, dance to the art table. Then I have to stop the musica or I’ll never get anything done!New Book, and new art for my wonderful new Summer Book. Yes, I did originally say it was a revision, but I also added sixteen new pages; what used to be 128 pages is now 144.💙 And I couldn’t help remembering you all have the original book, so, more and more excited as I went along, I practically changed the whole thing … reworked some pages, gave other pages new art, put in different quotes, and replaced some pages with new recipes; now there’s so much more garden, tea, jam-making, watercolors, ideas, stories, and quotes . . . I mean 30 years is a long time, the world has changed since 1995, I had a lot to share. We NEED a new Summer Book, and here it is! Well, kind of, this ⬇️ is my mock-up, the pages aren’t hooked together, the real thing is at the printer!

Green! I’ve decorated the inside of our house all in green to match the garden and I made this book green too ~ much greener than it used to be, for the same reason! And because of my inspiring surroundings, I made it for love of the earth and everything that grows on it.💚

But don’t worry, there are other colors too, something for everyone! Have you preordered yours yet? You can, right HERE!

Oh yes, been cooking too!

Recipe-testing on Shelly and Holly! (Sister and Niece came to visit, more later!)

And just for you, a little preview. ⬇️ xoxoxo

         

I’m excited because there’s going to be a book-signing welcome-home event here in the lovely town of San Luis Obispo in early November, and you’re all invited! I’ll tell you where and when as soon as I find out those important details! After that, Joe and I want to go on a book tour, heading north first because we never go to Oregon and Washington or even Northern California and hope we can do that this time. I’ve never seen Vancouver! Something else to look forward to! And we’ll see how it goes, maybe drive back to the island and stop along the way at bookstores. Maybe one near you!

Another surprise is coming soon. It’s so hard for me to keep my mouth shut but if I give you all the surprises on one day, what will I have to say next time? Actually I’m not sure I will ever run out. I need a garden club. That’s my next quest. I’m going to try and make one. Maybe I’ll follow in the steps of Vita Sackville West and give garden walks someday. I think a garden club might include someone to warn me about buying Butterfly bush BEFORE I fall in love with everything about it and plant this invasive plant, apparently capable of destroying the world, in my garden.

Like the original Summer Book, this revision is still imbued with the spirit of New England Summers because that’s where this book was born, and also, I brought as much of all my favorite places to California as I could. Look over the trees, ⬆️ that’s the sun going down back there, every sky is different, all so beautiful.

And beautiful in New England, where my heart has been for so many years, no messing with that, but the new Summer Book benefits from having the land of perpetual summer as inspiration. (Or perpetual fall, I haven’t decided.) There are restaurants on the ocean here in California too! Probably never as pretty as this one!

So come with me and I’ll give you a little tour of my passion! I’ve been planting and working in the garden the entire time I’ve been painting and writing. Widen the photo and you can walk right under othe rose arbor and go look at the picket fence garden! Took forever for these roses to bloom. The anticipation was glorious!

Here’s a close up of what you see when getting close to and walking under the arbor. Thank you God.🌸 No other words.

New art for my Summer Book, because, after 30 years, so many secrets for the good life! But the biggest and best, I’ll just give away right here: It’s only one word! Look. That’s it. See everything. Take time to notice, watch the grass grow, see the moon rise, hear the water gurgle into your tea cup, see the afternoon shadows, note the butterflies. Turn off everything, and give yourself some music. Listen. Smell the flowers. Turn your senses on. It’s all right there. One other secret, Give. Don’t hold anything back for later, give it all away now. And don’t forget you. Surprise yourself. Invite yourself to an outdoor restaurant for lunch. And take your best friend. Eat ANYTHING you want. I could go on all day. Nurseries are heaven, and filled with beauty. You never know where you’ll find that little spark that lights up your creative heart. Life, my darling darlings, is for the living.

Look at those scented sweeties!

Some for me and some for the gophers and lots to make bouquets out of!I did this and my heart doth knowed it wanted sweet peas. And so. Seeds. And voila. That’s how easy it was. 💞 My heart dideth also knowed it wanted sweet peas in Martha’s Vineyard. But that was too bad. They don’t grow there. So my heart doth changed its mind and wanted hydrangeas.🤗

 As I walk toward the sofa, the first thing I notice is the bright colors of the sweetpeas out the windows . . . the cheeriest sight. I’m such a homebody.🌸

In person the colors are much more vivid than in these photos . . . Those colors are almost too much for the camera in my iphone. Like looking at the sun. Blinding. Oh! Yes, I got a new bird feeder, see it on the right …?👏

Remember this bird feeder? I know lots of you got one when I showed it the first time . . . what do you think? I’m pretty sure they’re sold out now, I couldn’t find them, but this is the one I got today! Because of the little solar-powered windows that light up & because everyone says they’re easy to fill!

This is our butterfly garden… all yellow, purple, orange, and fuchsia flowers, some just planted and still tiny, along with three large Julia Child Rose bushes, lots of catmint, and one of my favorites, the lovely Princess Juliana geum ~ and a wee angel drinking saucer for the butterflies to sip from.🦋

 Did you know a third of the food we eat depends on a pollinator? Yes, we need those birds and insects, bees, butterflies, & hummingbirds. My garden is my small way to give back and hopefully make more, while enjoying every moment. My hedges are bird motels, the welcome sign is out. I can see butterflies flitting from where 🦋 I am sitting right now, that corner window on the right.⬆️ 

Coming in from the wildflower orchard after a few hours of weeding (after watering, a little muddy, but I needed to soften those roots!). I do it for the beauty, for strength, for Vitamin D, peace of mind, fragrance, buzzing and chirping, smiling, singing,stress relieving, cat-rolling and petting, and self satisfaction. In love with my dirt. Do I know what I’m doing? No I do not! But that’s why we have Google!!! So much easier than it once was! Once I had a little upstairs apartment, and the only dirt I had was in a window box. I could open the kitchen window to tend the plants in the box that was on the outside; I grew herbs there and I have to say, even THAT tiny thing made me happy!🌷

I have to stop … just remembered, my dad sent me this photo a few years ago (and captioned it)… it’s a freezing cold spring day on Martha’s Vineyard, which, coming from Arizona, was his big complaint. From right, that’s Shelly, Dad, Jeannie, me, Joe, Billy & Bob (friends). I love that my dad wrote that note. Makes me laugh every time I see it.💞

I’m finally finishing planting the perennial gardens, the plants are small, I anticipate that soon they will catch hold of their new soil, curl their little roots around the bits of compost we have provided, grow big, and fill in all the dirt places. If staring made plants grow, it would already be done. 

This is the new wildflower orchard, that is the peach tree we planted out there before it was an orchard. So many little peaches on it🍑, I think we’re going to have a bumper crop! Behind are the wildflowers, then my obstacle course (explained later in this post), and behind that are acres of cabbage belonging to the neighbors.

Close up, the orchard looks like this. And everyday new seeds reveal their secrets. There’s something out there now, tons of it, I have no idea what it is, some is a little taller than others, watching with much anticipation to find the first one in bloom. Two other things coming soon, the gardenias have little buds (now if they will just stay on!), and we must have 50 agapantha blossoms almost ready to pop!

Up close and personal with agapanthus. All ours are blue, but I just planted 3 new white ones in the perennial garden.

Out to dinner the other night and took my hostess a bouquet of wild flowers. (The jacket is there partly to stop the vase from falling over in the car!)

Close up of a “Five Spot” wildflower. I never saw one of these before, but the delicacy and the detail is just wow. There are some amazing teeny flowers out there, but you have to look closely!

This is my favorite variety of baby’s breath, Gypsophila elegans. So Doris Day, wild and free, blowing in the wind. I love seeing the more formal gardens right next to the cottage gardens, everything, kind of mixed together. And a surprise around every corner.

Joe built stairs from the front deck down to the picket fence garden ~ they’re behind those bushes on the right . . . 

Here he’s just getting ready to install them . . . Simon aka Big Boy, is helping.

He even built a hand-rail so none of our friends, or me, kills themselves going down the stairs!

Look at him. I was walking round and round when he was doing this. I saw this perfect little rose and brought it to him, next time I saw him, he was wearing it. . .💞 My guy, charm personified.

We found this metal bench at our local garden store … I like metal because black widow spiders prefer wood! And I prefer no black widow spiders! We also added a couple more rockers . . .  I found the perfect cushion for it on Amazon , and it didn’t cost an arm and a leg 👏 … (just in cases ~ I would tell you anyway, but legally they want me to remind you that our Studio will get a small percentage every time I put up a link for an Amazon product, so here it is! But of course, only get what you fall in love with!) . . .  the cushion comes in different sizes, this one is 48″ wide, it has ties too, looks flat as a pancake when it arrives, but with a little shake, in a few hours it puffs up to this!⬆️ I JUST got it, so I don’t know how long it will last, but now the bench is perfect for my new garden club meeting.😄 When I figure out how to start one! Problem is, I will need to figure out how to keep it only to 6 or 7 people… otherwise we will get nothing done!!!🤗

And now, in the evenings, I have this . . . And there is a new bird feeder on the branch of that tree, too out of focus to see, but very entertaining. Notice, Sammy?⬆️I LOVE our birds, and having feeders, and the wonderful app on my phone called Merlin Bird ID ~ Just point it into the air and it will listen, identify, show you pictures of the birds it hears and you can look for them. It’s fun! and Free!

This was about 5:30 AM this morning . . . I could hear them from inside the house!👏 

My walk is getting more civilized all the time! Although it will always be dirt as long as I’m here. Paradise has enough pavement as far as I’m concerned. So this is the driveway side, I walk all the way to the back . . . and make a left. When I walk up and down the tops of the driveways (they go up because we’re in an ancient river bed) on both sides, my watch registers those as stairs!👏 I’m recording 7 sets of stairs a day now 😁, and around 10,000 steps! Fat little California quail, with topknots on their heads, run quickly ahead of me.

These are our cottonwood trees, whispering above, and they really do whisper when the leaves rub together in the wind . . . it’s beautiful to walk under them! I love the dappled light . . . Here, I’ll take you with me for a moment . . . Listen!

Side 3, by far the most uncivilized part of the walk . . . Gopher holes, weeds, bumps, uneven ground ~ a tripping obstacle course, very good for strengthing balance. Carrying phone in case I have to call 911! (Plus it has my book in it! I’m listening to The Good Life: Lessons from the World’s Longest Study on Happiness ~ really good, is making me HAPPY!) The back of the wildflower orchard is on the right … you can see the cottonwood trees back there… Egrets shop for gophers in the fields on my right . . . our mourning doves sound just like the English variety when they coo “my toe huts bet-tee,” although without the Bet-tee, their toes just hut. At night we sleep with owls hooty-hooting. . . .

 I look to my left and see this . . .rows of cabbage . . . 

And bluebirds hang out where I turn at the bend in the road which I nicknamed “Bluebird Corner.” Little groups of them, on the fence, on fence posts, on telephone lines. They are wild country birds and don’t come to feeders. We put a bluebird nesting box out there years ago ~ I think these are the descendants of those first nesters and this is their home.

Then it’s back across the front of the house past the arbor to the long driveway . . . to the other driveway, up that, back down, and again!

For a change of pace, I can choose to take the long walk . . . the lawn path that goes from one side of the property to the other, where I can turn and reverse the walk for new views. Someday, if we ever sell our house on the island, we might put a small lap pool behind the hedge on the right. What self-respecting 1970s double-wide “hotel” with one guest room doesn’t have a little skinny pool out back?

Welcome to the Hotel California . . .

So that was book fun, and nature fun, and now for some people fun! Here’s one of our first Hotel California guests . . . my niece Holly ~ up in the morning, writing in her diary, with Jack watching. Note her fingernails. She let me do that!

We had such a wonderful visit! I took her to my favorite Italian restaurant and we shared Tiramisu. With all our hearts.

Not JUST dessert . . . We had dinner too!😄

Then Shelly came and we got silly! Because we’re family! And we’re good at it!

After a wonderful visit, Holly had to go home and back to work. Then Shelly, Diane, and I went to an afternoon concert in a tiny place, outdoors under the sun in Baywood Park with the BEST musica (Jill Knight and her band) … which we sang along to (so now you can’t hear HER) and no one cared! It occurs to me they should change the name of our generation from Baby Boomers to “the FUN people.” Because we are! You should have seen everyone dancing. Even me! It was such a happy day and wonderful fun! You would have loved it!💝

Time for me to go! I hope you enjoyed this update . . . sorry I was MIA last month, but you know, the book! Never worry! I will return for as long as I can, and this world we made together will always leave the sweetest little mark in the DNA of the universe. In short there’s simply not a more congenial spot
For happily-ever-aftering than here
 in Cam-el-lot. Right? And a huge Thank you to you darling people. Love you dearly.💞 Happy HAPPY June!!!

PS, Ooops, I almost forgot, two things I think you’ll LOVE on Netflix: First and foremost is the new series called Etoile! They just finished season one. Try not to binge-watch it. It deserves to last as long as humanly possible. I can’t say enough good about it! Smart, AND beautiful! And the other one, good too, Sirens. 

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